Hi Ladies,
It is December and as women our stress load increases as each day inches toward the 25th. We need to take time...even a few minutes to relax and reduce our stress level. Lock yourself in the bathroom and soak in a relaxing herb bath. Add a candle and music to make it even more effective.
Go on a walk to relieve the stress. Walking is good for both mental stress, and to help with estrogen dominance.
Write a list of all your blessings: big blessings and small ones as well. Blessings include a home, food to eat, clothes, your family, all of these. Many thousands of people do not have any of these such as food.
Drink some chamomile tea before bed. This will help relax you.
This article is in my last ezine and I felt it has some valuable help for stress no matter what time of year it is:
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Growth Resources
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Through this article I would like to explore some very basic
methods that can be used by the individual to relieve
tension, stress, depression, as well as sharpen intuition, clear
the mind, increase energy, and help restore a general sense
of well being. As with all material of this nature it is not
intended to diagnose or cure any illness. Conditions requiring
medical attention should be treated properly through conventional
channels.
Please use discretion.
The basic premise in all of this is to know that all beings
require equality. There must be a balance between the
spiritual, emotional, and physical being. When the balance is
off, we are off. We feel the repercussions through physical
pain, discomfort, anxiety, anger, and depression. When we
go to the doctor to seek pills for physical ailments, we seek
to put a Band-Aid on the symptoms and not usually the underlying
problem. Again I am not discouraging anyone from going to the doctor,
however most doctors would agree that a well-balanced person tends to
be a healthier person. Nothing that improves the outlook can hurt you.
There are various natural methods that can be used by
anyone in even the busiest lifestyles, to help restore a sense
of balance. I will be touching on the basics of
*Light Meditation
*Visualization
*Affirmations
*Journal Writing
MEDITATION: There are many misconceptions about meditation.
Many feel it takes a lot of time or that it is a serious religious
practice. It definitely does not have to be and is
one of the most powerful tools anyone can integrate into their
lifestyles. It takes a little effort, but the rewards you can reap are
immeasurable. The truth is even a moment or two a couple of times a day
gives the mind a chance to regroup. This is particularly helpful for
those who suffer from anxiety or the racing mind.
For beginning meditations I recommend sitting in a comfortable position
in a location as free from outside noise as possible. Close the eyes
and simply focus on clearing your mind of all conscious thought. If this
is difficult you can repeat a word that makes you think relaxing
thoughts. My word is "repose. If you catch your mind starting to wander
gently pull it back to your word or to the stillness. When you first start
try doing this for only a minute or two, and then as you do it more you
can increase the time. If you are patient and keep with it, you will
find that the benefits are well worth the effort. Your mind will thank
you for the break.
Visualizations:
Next I would like to move on to Visualizations. All of us know
how to daydream. The truth is when you daydream you are doing a
visualization of sorts. You are removing the conscious mind from
all the hustle and bustle of its thoughts and placing it somewhere
else. In visualization exercises the purpose is to control where
you put your thoughts.
It can be used to aid in pain relief, depression, (I am seasonally
depressed and use visualization therapy a lot to help me get through
winter) and in anxiety reduction.
Bring into vision in your minds eye a place that relaxes you.
A place that is all your own. It can be an actual place you
have been to, or just a place you make up. This will be your
escape from the real world. Picture the place in your mind.
Now go deeper into the picture. What do you see? Look for
the details of your special place. What is the temperature
like? If you are outside, how is the weather? What do you
hear? What do you smell? Reach out and touch the ground or
the floor, what does it feel like? Touch; hear, smell everything
here. Spend a minute or two answering each question. Really develop
your place to the tiniest details. If it helps you write a description
of it. It is very important to bring it to life in your mind in a way
you can always go back to it and see it in its fullest details and unique
beauty.
Affirmations
Next I would like to cover affirmations. Affirmations are brief,
positive statements developed to help us to reprogram certain parts
of our subconscious. Many of us don't realize how many negative
thoughts we are bombarded with, self inflicted and otherwise.
Desensitization effects all of us.
For one hour focus and try to pay attention to all of
your random thoughts. For every negative thought you have or hear
make a mark on a piece of paper. At the end of the hour take that
number and multiply it by about 16, this is a good indication of
how much negativity your absorbing. You will be surprised with
the results.
We all have that little nagging voice inside of us that tries
to tear us down. "You're not pretty enough you're not smart
enough" etc. This can be a very powerful voice and the more
negativity we consume, the more we feed it. In turn it tells
us more negative things, so ultimately we believe them and
begin to lose our personal power. One of the most effective
tools to use against this negativity is to reprogram our
thought patterns. The Subconscious mind repeats what it is
programmed with, not caring whether it is negative or positive.
What you hear and think often enough you will believe. Our goal
here is to fight fire with fire so to speak, and come back at
the negatives with a positive and to reinforce those positives.
An affirmation should have the following qualities:
Must be brief Must be concise Must not have the word no in
it or any negative connotations Must be easy to remember
Must be repeated often.
An example of a good affirmation would be I have all I need
and I am thankful. Or I love myself unconditionally.
As a general rule I say to keep the same affirmation going for
at least a week. Learn to say it with conviction. Pay attention
to what you are saying every time you repeat it. When you
have a few minutes to yourself go look in the mirror and say
it to yourself and mean it! Yes you will tell yourself you look
silly, that's OK, do it anyway. The more you do the less silly
you will feel and the more empowered you become. When we face
ourselves we find our true strength!
Writing / Journal Keeping
I can not say enough how much writing helps. There are
many different types of ways to do this and the best method
is to find your own method. One that is comfortable to you,
as this is a very intense, very deeply personal experience.
When you first start just writ e/type whatever comes into your
head, no matter how silly it might seem. This is the key to
unlock the floodgates. Gradually as you get into it and time
progresses you will open many doors of self-discovery, and
through this begin to regain your balance.
I hope that some of these methods will begin to help you
become a stronger, more confident person.
I do have a Personal Health and Wellness Seminar coming up
that will be available online that will cover many methods
in depth that you can use to reconnect with your
Spirit and empower your life.
If you enjoyed this article and would like to learn more about
Personal Empowerment and Connecting with your Spirit visit
Mystical Treasures home to many free Spiritual & Personal Growth
Resources
http://www.mysticaltreasures.net **
Have a Blessed week and see you in a few days.
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